Codependency Means You Feel INVISIBLE and NOT GOOD ENOUGH

Codependency Means You Feel INVISIBLE and NOT GOOD ENOUGH

29 thoughts on “Codependency Means You Feel INVISIBLE and NOT GOOD ENOUGH”

  1. If people really felt enough … theyโ€˜d quit their senseless jobs. If people really felt enough … they didnโ€˜t waste their money on useless stuff and go shopping instead of praying and talking to the people they love.
    In our brave new world, people are not supposed to be happy. Because then they donโ€˜t consume. There are powerful forces that keep us from being truly connected.
    I agree with you. You are fighting for the truth that scares the hell out of people.
    You are a hero. I know what that feels like.

  2. I need your help mam, be my family's Dr. Please. I'm a daddy of 4 daughters, boy are we all suffering. My one daughter is a cancer/heart patient, she alone is reason enough for your help. Sorry, we are struggling.

  3. I've been labeled those things as well, I thought I was the only person who would cry over small things. The sensitivity came from my friends (well most of it) I go to a therapist for my school problems and it hasn't exactly helped a lot but I'm working on it. I call my self crazy sometimes and stupid because I think I'm never good enough I changed my style for other people, but no change no nothing, still judged by things by my friends like, art work I was proud of (they told me why did you do this and that and oh you should have done that) and that's the reason I stopped drawing because of the things said about how I could do things. And that really, really hurts because it makes me think that they can do so much better and I kept on trying to be better but ended up crying over everything I put on my page so I stopped I still draw alone but never show it. I am too afraid to say how I feel sometimes because from past experiences I was called a drama maker, selfish, cry baby, I could go on. I also have some sort of ADHD but not severely. I told my friends that because I wanted them to know if I get a little mad at random times ignore it because it's not anger issues it's my ADHD. I had to tell them that because from more past experiences I was told I have anger issues and that I over react over nothing. I used that isscuse once for a good reason I don't want people saying mean things about stuff I can not control. And I'm not sure if I'm codedepndent (sorry for spelling) or not and if you made it down this far thank you for taking the time out of your day to read this it means a lot.

  4. I never felt invisible, but often wished I was. I didn't grow up with a family. I grew up in front of a panel of judges. I hate them all. I never had any privacy, respect. I didn't feel safe. I was bullied more at hime than at school. I couldn't do ANYTHING right, but when I tried to stand up for myself, I was at fault. I was expected to be a doormat at home, but some kind od Amazon outside.

  5. Great job, I am sitting in my own room listening to your talk, you have already influenced me and I realised that I am
    codependent and I need to work on myself , Thank you

  6. I remember when I thought I did something wrong at work with the IT Guy. I thought he was going to come yell at me, so I ran away from my desk AT WORK, like a child would. I know he has issues too, because he has made another colleague cry, but I am glad I saw that as it happened. Thank you for assisting all of us in our awakening!

  7. my husband saved my life – he saved me from my codependent family… they were getting verbally and physically abusive and now he is helping me get therapy… He said to me I will love you if you are just a house wife and mother, or I will love you if you decide to be more… He is stronger than the both of us and I love him for it

  8. The bitter irony is that in the narcissistic family system, all this disfunction that you describe exists, but at the same time you are brain-washed to believe that not only everything is great in this family, no, everything is better than in any other family! Gaslighting at it's finest, and truly crazy-making.

  9. I have 2 parents who don't know how to show love, how to connect, how to have a respectful conversation without giving the other person the feeling they matter, who don't know how to handle emotions, who do a lot of things the wrong way….. – 5 years ago I banned them from my life, bc even when i was in my most depressed period, trying to fix myself with drugs and alcohol, they did not care. Now i am clean and sober again, i found 2 jobs and a lovely partner. Throwing them away like garbage, just like they did to me, was the best thing i could ever do! Because they were toxic and with them in my life I had no chance to heal. I love myself, I am strong, I will take care of myself and respect myself. Ready for a bright future!

  10. ๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ข๐Ÿ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ง๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ ๐ง๐š๐ซ๐œ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐œ ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฉ๐ฌ๐ฒ๐œ๐ก๐จ๐ฉ๐š๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐œ ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐ž๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ž๐š๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ข๐ง๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ข๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ง๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ?

  11. ๐˜๐ž๐ฉ! ๐๐ž๐ž๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž! ๐–๐ข๐ฌ๐ž๐ซ ๐ง๐จ๐ฐ! ๐„๐ฒ๐ž ๐จ๐ฉ๐ž๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ ! ๐“๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ž๐ฑ๐ญ๐ซ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ก๐ž๐ฅ๐ฉ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ!

  12. ๐๐š๐ซ๐œ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ.

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